We meet, we date, and we fall in love to live happily ever after. What happens when you are dating someone and it goes up in flames? For this post, anything less than marriage is a failed relationship. I never it sad when someone gives up on love after a derailed relationship. Now, I may be wrong about the reason to date, and if so, what exactly is dating? I think we all can agree, you should date someone before marrying them.
Why then is the breakup something where the two people who cared for each other feel again need to bash love and pretend to welcome the oh so glorious and anticipated single life?
Society has praised the trial and error method in terms of business: most of your mentors will testify about how their failures led them to greener pastures. I view relationships the same way; blessed to have gained more experience, and smart enough to know zooe moore the trip has taken its toll. Truth be told, failed relationships hurt! Did she look happy? Was her hair done etc. It hurts us, so we figure the best thing to do is swear to never love again.
This post is close to home because I have a friend who expressed again lack of faith click here love after going through a breakup.
I thought she was delirious as she is never Christian, and as Christians we believe there is always a way when God is involved. Outside of her spiritual belief, love is an abstract feeling that is serendipitous!
In simpler terms, see more is very hard to time love; it can arrive at any moment. We do this by getting back to our internal happy place. Dating me, it involves writing, reading, fresh shape ups and working out.
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I want to discern between internal and external happy places: external happy places usually cannot be shared due to their indecent nature drugs, porn, sex, stealing etc.
Having trouble figuring out your internal happy place? Peer back into your childhood! Every child had something they remember that was pure fun. Take time away from your busy schedule and just reminisce. Maybe you are not able to watch cartoons all day, but Dragon Ball Super comes on every Saturday for 30 minutes so I can feed my childish side just a bit!!! Ok, I got a little too excited, but do you get my point?
It might even be as childish as dating cartoon, but just enjoy the moment. The last thing I will recommend to do is simply give up and let God takeover. Challenge God by serving Him relentlessly and begging for his intervention.
The best and undefeated matchmaker is the big man Himself. Going through something and think my advice is complete bullshit? Like my advice? View all posts by longlivetobe.
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Like Liked by again person. Like Like. I get really attached very fast and get hurt very easily, which is why after my one before that was when I was 19 and refused to date, ever again.
So, I put my walls up high and thick and was cautious of where I would go out to. Either way, I have put my wall up so high now that no girl will ever get through them and that even if they can get to the point of testing them as I do not go out anymore.
I go home and go to work and refuse to hang out with anyone anymore, even friends. Its the only sure way to protect myself.
Love sucks and I’m never dating again
Have faith! That is the conclusion I came to. Which is why I have made them thicker and higher. My walls and precautions worked for 16 years, with what I have done now, they dating work for the rest never my life. Share read article Tweet. Like Loading Published by longlivetobe. Next post Get a man pt. You are very welcome.
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